Harry

This has come up a couple of times, and I'm all bollixed up. Latest case, we went out a couple of times on casual sort-of dates, so it seemed too early to bring it up: "Hey, I know we're just friends, but just in case that changes, you should know I have herpes" doesn't really work for me. On the other hand, she is a lot younger than me and expects me to make the move. But it seems unsportsmanlike to wait 'til we're in the clinches, when she's all lit up and maybe even a little buzzed, to drop it on her. Good advice would be greatly appreciated... read more